Love

“Love of a lifetime”

I am really amazed when I know that two couples are married for a long year I often wondered how they work on it to make their marriage for so long. For sure, the best secret there is love, but how do they keep a love that would last for a lifetime? Love we know is the most abused word in a dictionary has lot of meanings and people has a different point of views about love, for me I would say that love would not exist if there is no trust towards your partner in life. Trust is the basic element in every relationship it is something that you would to work hard once you are in a relationship once you have gained trust to each other you must take care of it because once it is destroyed it is really hard to restore it again, maybe you come up to your mind why I had said it well its because I experienced it for myself, I am still young but I had gone through a lot of relationships that’s why based on all my past relationships I learned a lot on how to work more on a relationship.

Let me share briefly about my relationship now. Me and my partner now in 9 months of relationship for the past few months we had arguments and mostly we decided to end up our relationship but we try to think it over again these are just a few struggles in a relationship and we come to think that if we stayed on our parents for how many years why not stay long on our relationship? Love really keeps us going on our relationship and so with trust. Let me also share what are some rules on how to keep love a lifetime most especially to those who are married couples.

v Never both be angry at the same time

v Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire

v If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate

v If you have to criticize, do it lovingly

v Never bring up mistakes of the past

v Neglect the whole world rather than each other

v Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled

v At least once every day try to say one kind or complimentary thing to your life’s partner

v When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness

v It takes two to make a quarrel, and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.

This can also be used a guide not only for married couples but as for those who are in a young relationship. Love unconditionally.